Need a strict mistress? hello I want a very strict mistress to command me and torture me in any way she wants. You girls like controlling guys plzz tell me and tell me in details in which way you would and plz im me on yahoo gorik818 if you want to be my mistress |
| This isn't the place for that kind of thing. Look for a chat room or forum that specializes in BDSM and leave it out of Yahoo Answers. |
How do I find,a mistress capable of meeting my high standards of expensive ? And most strict,expectations? |
| I can't really help you other than to suggest that your user name (not to mention the baseball cap) may count against you! |
What do you think of a women ruled world? I have asked a similar question but i would like to ask this again. How many men would be okay with a world like this. Women how many would like this?
A World where all men are not allowed to vote, men school is about how to properly serve women, while women school is about math, science, history, etc. Men after graduating are sent to become slaves where they follow a strict dress code of dresses and maids outfit. Women have all power, but men can work all income goes to the women mistress and all slaves are used for reproductive purposes. |
| i agree, that would be fun having men as our slaves! |
A Fanfiction about BDSM, Sub/Mistress? I don't really care from what universe it is, as long as it's well written.
I have a certain fetish and before I go into actually go into the BDSM real world, I'd like to read a few fan fictions first.
I know they are not guidelines and I don't intend them to use them to be, but I just want to read some for enjoyment and ideas first.
The Master must be a woman, therefore a Mistress or a Domme/ Dominatrix
And the slave MUST be a man.
And the Mistress must be very cruel. She is very strict and gives out hefty punishments with no mercy. The Mistress is sort of a sadist, because she inflicts a lot of pain on her slave/ slaves.
If you need more detail, just ask in your answer, but I think the above should do it.
The more fics the merrier!! |
BDSM activities and relationships differ from conventional activities and relationships in that they are based on the concept of partners deliberately taking on roles which—at least outwardly—appear unequal, in an eroticized context. Beyond these basic tenets of eroticism, the fact that society views the activities or relationships as outside the norm, and of purposefully unequal roles within an activity or an interpersonal relationship, there is little that unites all the disparate subcultures which are grouped under the umbrella term BDSM. Interpersonal relationships which are based on the social conventions of one of the BDSM subcultures, exist in marked contrast with the current Western ideal of such relationships being based on a partnership between equals.
While the terminology for these unequal roles varies widely within the various BDSM subcultures, Top and Dominant are widely recognized terms for those partner(s) in the relationship or activity which are respectively the physically active or controlling participants, and Bottom and Submissive are widely recognized terms for those partner(s) in the relationship or activity which are respectively the physically receptive or controlled participants. The interaction between Tops and Bottoms, where physical and/or mental control of the Bottom is surrendered to the Top – whether in the context of a short term encounter typically referred to as a scene, or in the context of a longer-term relationship – is sometime known as power exchange. |
What does it mean if you want to be dominated by a woman? I fantasize about serving a mistress, being her slave, doing everything she says without question, i ve done this with 1 girlfriend in the bedroom and i really enjoyed it. It really turned me on for some reason but i can't quite figure out why, part of me says it has something to do with having had a strict tough mother who bossed me about, any thoughts?
Thanks. |
| The way your mother treated you could definitely be a subconscious influence. Also, some people in general like to be subordinated in the bed room because having a total lack of control in such a vulnerable situation can feel very freeing. Giving the control of the situation to someone else is something a lot of people aren't comfortable with, but those that enjoy it like to not have to have control every now and then. Nothing wrong with that! |
Having a mistress? Hello My girlfriend has decided to try somethin different she is making me her lil slave and shes the mistress. Do you guys or girls think this is hot and sexy. She is very strict and I'll do anything for her speaking of that I have to shave and give her nice foot massage. Please hurry and tell me. Thanks |
| Go for it! It can be fun! |
How do i become a good mistress? so i have this guy... his former mistress with whom i am very close with (in a strictly non sexual way) gave him to be as a present and i don't know what to do with/to him. i ask him to please me and he does a thing or two. literally, its 1-2 things and that's it. he's lazy. his former mistress told me to punish him but idk how! i can threaten him but sometime i must punish him. im not a sub but i believe in sexual equality and i don't know how to be strict without insulting him or being too rough. we talk a lot so idk what to say except changing the tone of my voice and being kinda rude and calling him slave. advice anyone? btw his former mistress told me not to spoil him with my sweetness and i think that's what i'm doing :( |
| Sounds like you need to spend a little more time talking to his former one. Maybe you're just not cut out for it? |
How do i advance from being domme to being a mistress? I have someone who wants to be my slave, and that's fine and dandy. But i've never been someone's mistress before, just been dominant. He has much greater experience in this area, so i don't know how to go about doing this without possibly disappointing him in some way. We haven't decided if our relationship would include sex, so that's not really in question here. He's really into recieving pain, and i'm happy giving it to him. I've searched all over the web, but it hasn't provided satisfactory answers yet... Would it violate what we're trying for if i ask him to help me grow into the role that he wants? Or is there a book or website i haven't discovered yet that would help me along the way?
We've talked about our likes and dislikes, but he seems to be very determined as to what i want out of this. But from my end, I need to know his desires before confirming what i want. We do, however, have personal and professional obstacles that keep this from being a closer situation. We both have roommates, and work in the same company. Needless to say, neither of us wants people to catch wind of what we're doing. Our workplace is very strict and vanilla, and he is in a position superior to mine, and understandably fears what co-workers would say if they found out his preferences. So aside from the other question, is there a quiet way to let him know during work hours that i'm thinking of him and that he beloings to me, or should we avoid that all together? |
| nipple twisting, genital tying can be done discreetly at work |